Not sharing my BP makes implies that it’s something I’m embarrassed about — the kind of thing that’s just Best Not Talked About. And I just don’t believe that anymore.
Some things just throw us into a funk, and the best way to deal with them is to imagine you’re dealing with a petulant toddler.
Stop letting others make you feel bad for following your dreams. Here’s how to kill the guilt trips once and for all — and get back to being awesome.
The way we frame things matters. Are you telling yourself a story that’s actually sabotaging you?
Productivity is more than being in a state of perpetual motion. If you’re not using your efficiency on things that really matter, you’re actually wasting it.
I don’t need to impress anyone anymore—myself included.
Our lives over time contain a series of incremental improvements, most of which we take for granted as soon as we’ve got them.
One of the things you learn pretty quickly when you’re trying to write a novel in a month is how to keep plugging along whether you feel like it or not. Another thing you learn is how surprisingly hard this is, even when you’re working on something you love. The irony is that I’m a pro at plugging along when it comes to my job. I never “feel” like going in every morning (of course I don’t), or staying there for 8 hours, or doing any of the individual things I’m required to do while I’m there. But I’ve learned to keep going, day after day, in spite of that. Why I can’t do the same thing for my writing—something I truly love and daydream about while I’m stuck at work—is a mystery to me. The one and only explanation I can find for the difference between my self-discipline towards work vs. writing is that with my job, I don’t have the option not to do it. This is because I like to eat and be clothed, and as long as I want to continue doing both of those things, showing up at work is non-negotiable. Whether I feel like going or not is irrelevant. My writing, on the other hand, is the opposite of necessary, strictly speaking. No one is demanding it. My general physical wellbeing isn’t dependent on it. The only reason I have for doing it is that I really, really love doing it. And apparently that’s not enough motivation when I have the option of watching The Big Bang Theory in my PJs instead. Forcing Yourself to Do the Things You Love The trouble is that after using up most of my energy doing the things I don’t want to do, I rarely feel like I…
I’m not too enthused about the idea of living my life as a series of checkpoints and to-dos.Especially when they’re someone else’s