This is an excerpt from my ebook, Your Guide to Calling It Quits (because there are better things to do with your life). To read more, get your free copy here.
“Quitters never prosper.” ~common saying
“Winners never quit and quitters never win.” ~Vince Lombardi
“Homey don’t quit.” ~Chubby Checker
* * *
“He that will enjoy the brightness of the sunshine must quit the coolness of the shade.” ~Samuel Johnson
“The first thing you ought to do when you find yourself in a hole is quit digging.” ~Bill Clinton
“If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There’s no point in being a damn fool about it.” ~W.C. Fields
Quitting sometimes gets a bad rap. And sometimes it should. So I want to make sure we’re on the same page as to what sort of quitting we’re talking about.
The first set of quotes refers to the bad variety of quitting: giving up on something because it’s too hard, because you don’t succeed right away, because you’re afraid. When it comes to this kind of quitting, Homey shouldn’t play that. Life takes a certain amount of perseverance and stick-to-it-ive-ness. The important things aren’t always easy.
But There Are Some Things That Don’t Deserve Your Perseverance
Take a look at the second set of quotes. They refer to quitting of a different kind. Getting rid of an attitude that isn’t working to make room for something healthier. Stopping a bad habit or ending a relationship that’s only weighing you down. Letting go of responsibilities that are no longer worth your time. In these cases, quitting can be your best strategy.
We let our lives get all cluttered up with things that shouldn’t be in them. Bad friendships that make us feel horrible. Obligations we take on for the wrong reasons. Negative habits and attitudes that wear us down. It leaves us stressed out, burnt out, resentful, and with little time or energy left to focus on the things that really matter to us.
And it’s high time we got fed up enough to start doing something about that.
There Is Power in Saying “No” to the Things You Don’t Need in Your Life
It lets you clear out room for the things you do. Quitting, of the kind we’re talking about, is empowering.
It’s about freeing yourself.
It’s about regaining control.
It’s about embracing what really makes you happy and saying to the universe, “This is how I want my life to be, and I won’t accept anything less.”
It’s about taking control of, and responsibility for, your life and your happiness.
You game for that?
Image: Shanon Wise / Flickr
Never miss a post! Sign up here and get a free copy of Your Guide to Calling It Quits.